I have been told that writing is a deep form of healing, that it serves as catharsis. For me, writing has always been a form of expression. Especially after the 2 years of traveling, I find that there are fewer and fewer people with whom I can easily feel connected. I also love the idea that my children, my future grandchildren, and my entire family down the line will have a blog to visit to know more about me and to learn from my life history.
I put high premium on personal growth. And by writing, I am able to “measure” in another way how much I have grown. Therefore, I find it very interesting envisioning myself, years from now, going back to what I have written to see how far I have gone, how many lessons I have learned, who the people are with whom I have crossed paths.
Further, I have been told more than once that whether I resist it or not, I was born with a special mission; that I have what it takes to inspire others to make their lives better, that women have a special place and mission on this earth, that the world does not end if one is a single Mom or a solo parent. We all have the ability, the emotional capacity, the talent and the skills to make our lives the best for us and the kids we brought to this world.
I started writing diaries when I was 12 years old. I had my personal blogs site set up and moved some of the diary entries over there on July 15/07. That was a private blog that I share with people closest to my heart. In the process of completing this website, I needed to copy and paste here some of the blogs. What I was not prepared for was the nostalgic feeling it brought back. I realized that no matter how far back the events are and despite the fact that I have already written about them, I have not completely detached myself from some of them.
Despite the nostalgia, I will certainly continue to write. But now, instead of just simply writing memories as form of expression, I hope to be able to inspire others.
PS: I decided to add an “emotional meter” to my personal blogs on this website. The number at the end of each title represents my feelings at the time of writing. On a scale of 1 to 10, with 10 being the happiest.
Writing is definitely cathartic. Keep it up. You’re doing a great job!
Thanks Maurice! I only had 7 hours of sleep over the last 3 nights because I wanted to get his website done. I am so tired now. But very proud of myself for getting this far… 🙂
The personal growth part is really a value item for me too.
You inspired me to not slow down but to continue to focus on high levels of personal growth. Some of it are linked to the value of an education.
The dream idea of having my own blog of note has just been reborn. Lets see where it end up in the future.
I can’t wait to start following your blog Deon. You are such a wise guy therefore I am sure your blogs would be very interesting to read… 🙂